Cultivating truth and justice is pretty easy for me…living without anger seems far more difficult. I really dig the ancient Greek Stoic philosophers, of which Marcus Aurelius was one. Very pragmatic and sophisticatedly deep thinkers.
Is that even possible? I sense we all feel anger. We don’t have to marinate in anger but it damn sure pisses me off from time to time. Grrr. Tap tap.
There are rare humans whose nervous system never feels what you and I would call anger. And, very rare. It’s also I’d say on the neurodiversity scale quite outside the median.
So… I wonder though what “anger” refers to here is the expression of anger – the violence, the threat, the defensiveness – that appears so often externally when people are angry.
My own intention is to recognize when anger arises and see where it leads, without getting stuck “staying angry” because, well, I don’t know what else to do with those energies!
Anger into Oomph is what I hope to do, wherever it is possible, whenever the threat anger alerts me to is not life-or-death (and sometimes even if it were).
Exactly! I have pushed anger down so often but usually my body will let me know with some kind of pain. Usually it is stomach, often back and sometimes a weird “where did that come from” pain.
I do know someone who does not seem to get angry. Anger scares this person so much that - well I don’t know what they do with it.