What if it’s damaging?
I keep coming back to this as part of this spectrum, since I didn’t address it in the podcast. What if what is done is harmful? Damaging? Out of integrity?
If I am driving my car and I am being reckless or not paying attention “enough” to be in integrity with being a safe and aware driver, then a part of me says that it falls outside the spectrum of “okay.”
The perfectionist still in me then starts to argue about where that standard “should” be set? And how about interpersonal relationships? Where do we fall off the spectrum of being ok… and start into abusive, cruel, mean… or incompetent in a harm-likely way?
My body feels like I can discern what is true there for me. Just not sure I can articulate it. Perhaps it’s time for another topic on Hurt vs. Harm… one has been percolating.